Monday, June 17, 2013

Bully: What does it mean for our children?


Bullying, what does it mean for a child to be bullied or the one doing the bullying.  Typically, bullying is used to gain power over someone else to control and rule them.  The issue is so important that it must be addressed to save our youngest citizens.  The US Secretary of Education Arne Duncan shared “every state should have effective bullying prevention efforts in place children inside and outside of school”.  We must advocate for better laws and bring a strong public awareness to the issue.  Pop Star Lady Gaga went to the White House to discuss bullying prevention and keep in mind you do not have a be a celebrity to have your voice heard.  Our children need each of us as adults to stand tall on this issue. 

Some ways adults can intervene effectively to reduce bullying is first identify unacceptable peer actions that may include

1.       Physical aggression (hitting, kicking, pushing);

2.      Verbal aggression (threatening, taunting, teasing); and

3.      Exclusion from activities

We must engage in conversation with our children and model appropriate ways to communicate with peers.  Remember, children model what they see us doing.  If you are having a little trouble beginning the conversation check out “Stop Bullying Now” website that shares webisodes and games to start talking.  If you do not think it is an issue you need to address listen to Bullied Kid Turns Survivor.  Let’s be proactive and stop this before it is your child who is faced with the issue.

 

 

 

 

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